Wednesday, January 30th, 2008
Self-esteem is about what is on the inside, a belief in yourself and your abilities. Positive esteem focuses on acceptance of self and others. It remains constant despite the storm. This fosters cooperation and wholeness.
10 Ways to align your Self-Esteem with your life.
1. Define life success
One of the most empowering things you can do for yourself is to define your criteria for life success. This requires reflecting on what the key elements are and the experiences you wish to have in physical, social, intellectual and spiritual levels.
2. Choose to be happy
Happiness is a state of mind. The Dalai Lama says that the very purpose of life is to seek happiness. He believes that if you train the mind to be happy, you will be. Likewise, you can train yourself for higher self-esteem by following the teaching of Islam, Love of God and holy Prophet. World become your actual happiness you will serve organizations, family and your self just to please God almighty. It will be a regular source of happiness.
3. Set challenging goals
How much you like yourself is often reflected in the level of goals you will set for yourself. Generally, people who like themselves and feel valuable set hight and more challenging life goals.
4. Honor your core values
When you live by a clear set of values, it is easier to align your life with what is most important to you. When you honor your core values, (those things you would fight for), you honor your true self you must have a written set of core values for you it would a strong motivational force.
5. Enhance your energy
People with high self-esteem seem to have a reservoir of energy and seldom get sick or let life’s backs keep them down. Their energy and enthusiasm for life encourages them to take care of their body, mind and spirit.
6. Maintain a positive attitude
Attitude determines your altitude. The more positive your thinking, the more positive your feelings, the more positive the outcome. There is nothing more powerful and creative than your thoughts, so you may as well make them positive and uplifting.
7. Be passionate
Passion takes hold of you and feels like “fire in the belly”. It is a source of power that enables you to get fired about life and make a difference. The more passion and zest you feel the more alive and brightly lit you are passion is like an umbrella that covers all feelings of your self-esteem
8. Live by vision and work with purpose
When you know your life vision and purpose, life has more meaning and direction. Vision and purpose provide a sense that you matter, that you have a part to play, and that you truly belong here you must a written vision and mission of life. It will always enhance your self-esteem.
9. Reward success
Set yourself up for success by breaking big goals into daily action steps and take time to acknowledge and celebrate the small successes. This will feed your need for recognition and provides the extra push to keep you moving forward.
10. Make smart life decisions
When you care about yourself, you make smarter decision. You take care to choose the right mate, occupation, and lifestyle that support you. These decisions will not only help you to become the right person for the right job but also the exact cultural and organizational fit for whom the people are dreaming, desiring and waiting for.
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Saturday, September 1st, 2007
SMART
In normal life, word “SMART” is using for handsome, pretty, intelligent or sharp personality.
But this word is very import in some areas As this individual word contain multiple words and meanings
Let us see what it can be
SMART has five characters
In Human Resource, Project Management, “SMART” is using in the following meanings
S = Specific
M = Measurable
A = Attainable/Achievable
R = Realistic
T = Time
It means whenever you are making your plan or any goal/objective that should be SMART enough. So, you can easily acheive your target within limited time period.
If you will not specify your goal or target you may be lost in the world and never ever achieve your goal.
You goal/target should be measureable so that after a time period you can identify how much you have gained and how much lost.
You goal/target/timeperiod should be acheiveable. for example, never ever make a target that you will be a president of USA (if you are not American by birth) 
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Tuesday, February 20th, 2007
One day while walking down the street, a highly successful Human Resources Manager was tragically hit by a bus and she died. Her soul arrived up in heaven where she was met at the Pearly Gates by St.Peter himself.
“Welcome to Heaven,” said St. Peter. “Before you get settled in though, it seems we have a problem. You see, strangely enough, we’ve never once had a Human Resources Manager make it this far and we’re not really sure what to do with you.”
“No problem, just let me in,” said the woman.
“Well, I’d like to, but I have higher orders. What we’re going to do is let you have a day in Hell and a day in Heaven and then you can choose whichever one you want to spend an eternity in.”
“Actually, I think I’ve made up my mind, I prefer to stay in Heaven”, said the woman
“Sorry, we have rules…”
And with that St. Peter put the executive in an elevator and it went down-down-down to hell. The doors opened and she found herself stepping out onto the putting green of a beautiful golf course. In the distance was a country club and standing in front of her were all her friends - fellow executives that she had worked with and they were well dressed in evening gowns and cheering for her. They talked about old times. They played an excellent round of golf and at night went to the country club where she enjoyed an excellent steak and lobster dinner.
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She met the Devil who was actually a really nice guy (kind of cute) and she had a great time telling jokes and dancing. She was having such a good time that before she knew it, it was time to leave. Everybody shook her hand and waved goodbye as she got on the elevator.
The elevator went up-up-up and opened back up at the Pearly Gates and found St. Peter waiting for her.
“Now it’s time to spend a day in heaven,” he said. So she spent the next 24 hours lounging around on clouds and playing the harp and singing. She had great time and before she knew it her 24 hours were up and St. Peter came and got her.
“So, you’ve spent a day in hell and you’ve spent a day in heaven. Now you must choose your eternity,”
The woman paused for a second and then replied, “Well, I never thought I’d say this, I mean, Heaven has been really great and all, but I think I had a better time in Hell.”
So St. Peter escorted her to the elevator and again she went down-down-down back to Hell. When the doors of the elevator opened she found herself standing in a desolate wasteland covered in garbage and filth. She saw her friends were dressed in rags and were picking up the garbage and putting it in sacks.
The Devil came up to her and put his arm around her.
“I don’t understand,” stammered the woman, “yesterday I was here and there was a golf course and a country club and we ate lobster and we danced and had a great time. Now all there is a wasteland of garbage and all my friends look miserable.”
The Devil looked at her smiled and said…….. ……… …..
“Yesterday we were recruiting you, today you’re an Employee..”
THIS IS WHAT WE CALL H.R. Management
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Wednesday, November 22nd, 2006
Today, when I entered in university, someone told me that a personality Mr. Danish was invited to deliver a lecture on HR. It was really a very interesting session with him.
As he is British born then definitely, English is his mother language. But surprisingly, he has a grip on Arabic and Urdu too.
Mr. Danish showed us the mirror of our status. He said if we (Pakistani) want to success then please do the following step in life on regular basis.
- Follow Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him)
- Organize Yourself
- Always speak truth
- Be Honest with yourself (when you will sincere yourself you will sincere with your country and religion)
- Give respect to each other
He said that success is the name of Commitment and Struggle.
Mr. Danish is British born Pakistani. He has a good experience in Information Technology. He had experience to work in IBM, Microsoft.
Now a day, he is working in Services Hospital, Lahore, Punjab, Pakistan.
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Muhammad Khalid
www.webgurru.net
Tags: HR, Pakistan, PUCIT, Punjab University
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